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C. Moore Hardy

October 6, 2015 by 55Upitty

As a feminist who’s just turned sixty I’ve got wisdom, I’ve got knowledge and I think I’m pretty fabulous for my age. I’m a professional perve. I’m a shutter slut. I’m a photographer. I’m a subversive and a pervert. I like those labels. As a feminist who’s just turned sixty I’ve got wisdom, I’ve got knowledge and I think I’m pretty fabulous for my age. I consider myself a Sydney sider. I was born in Darlinghurst, Sydney – couldn’t be […]

Categories: Activists, Artists, Feminist, Lesbians, Photographers • Tags: age, ageing, ageism, animal rights, anti-nuclear, archives, art, australia, australian centre for photography, australian politics, bad feminist, botox, brigidine college, c moore hardy, Catholic, Catholicism, church, City of Sydney, coming out, Community, conservationism, creative, darlinghurst, discrimination, documentary, documentary photography, dyke, exhibition, family, fashion, father, feminism, feminist, garden, gardening, gay, gay games, gay lesbian rights, girlfriend, grrl, health, history, homosexual, instagram, irish, jodhpurs, leather, lebanese, lesbian, LGBT, LGBTI, LGBTIQ community, LGBTIQ families, liposuction, lipstick lesbian, love, mardi gras, married, matriarch, mother, natural heritage, older people, parents, pervert, pets, pharmacist, photography, politics, portraits, pride, protest, queer, ratbag, relationships, self-defence, sex, sexuality, social media, subversive, sydney, viv mcgregor, viv mcgregor photography, woman, women, women's right, youth, youth culture

Dorothy

July 2, 2014 by 55Upitty

I have always been open about my age, but I am particularly comfortable, and proud, to say that I am eighty. When I was about three, I can remember having a sense of another presence around me, a comforting presence. I always felt there was something beyond me. I was brought up a Methodist, and then the Methodist church became part of the Uniting Church. I am so glad I had a father who was a radical thinker.   I never […]

Categories: Christian, Lesbians, Mothers, Uncategorized • Tags: African National Congress, age, ageing, ageism, anti-apartheid movement, australia, australian politics, books, Catholicism, clergy, clerical collar, Death, fascist, feminism, feminist, gay, God, graffiti, grandchildren, grandmother, human rights, Human Rights Medal, journalism, lesbian, LGBTI, love, Macquarie University, Methodism, Methodist, minister, mission, mother, neo-Nazi, neo-Nazism, ordain, ordination, Pitt Street Uniting Church, politics, protest, racism, racist, Redfern, relationships, sex, sexuality, South Sydney Herald, Synod, Tasmania, Uniting Church, vietnam, Waterloo, White Australia policy, woman, women, women's movement, Woprld Council of Churches

Mary Jane

April 30, 2014 by 55Upitty

I’d urge everyone to enjoy each period of life. Try not to get too consumed with what’s ahead and what’s behind. I don’t mind being this age, but I’d like the fitness and energy I had when I was 25. I’m 62 years of age, but I have to think about it to be sure. I am a family therapist and counsellor, and I also work with people who have drug and alcohol dependence. Both privately and in a psychiatric […]

Categories: Fashion, Feminist, Lesbians, Mothers, Professionals, Uncategorized • Tags: aboriginal, accident, addiction, addicts, brain damage, Catholic, Catholicism, children, Christian, Christianity, club foot, convent, counselling, counsellor, Death, discrimination, drug addiction, drug addicts, equal marriage, euthanasia, family therapy, feminism, feminist, Foster Care Association, fostering, head injury, Indigenous, lesbian, lesbian uniform, marriage, mother, motorbike, Northmead High, novitiate, nun, nurse, Palm Island, perpetrators, Point Piper, psychology, retirement, retiring, school, secrecy, sex, sexual abuse, sexuality, shame, talipes, therapist, travel, women's health

Beatriz

January 14, 2014 by 55Upitty

I’m old.  Not inside.  Inside I’m still very young.  But I’m proud to say that I am seventy one. I grew up in Rosario, in Argentina.  When I was eighteen I saw a documentary about Bondi Beach, and I really wanted to come and see it.  When my father died, I asked my sister if she’d come here with me. My mother was against it.  She asked; “Why do you want to go there?  There’s no women there.”  But it […]

Categories: Academics, Artists, Feminist, Grandparents, Lesbians, Mothers, Professionals • Tags: abortion, acting, Argentina, art, australia, Bondi, books, Buddhism, Catholicism, children, counselling, creative writing, discrimination, Doctorate, drag queen, education, feminism, feminist, gay, gym, Kerry Fluhr, lesbian, mother, psychologist, psychology, relationships, sex, shoes, Spanish, sydney, TAFE, theatre, yoga

Shauna

July 9, 2013 by 55Upitty

The most special thing about me is that I can sing.  Singing has been a part of me since I was a very little girl. I’m fifty-nine. I’ll be sixty this year. When I was seven years old, there was a talent school run by Miss Roderick, who by the way lived with her companion and wore very sensible shoes, tartan skirts and twin-sets. The talent school was in the local Presbyterian Hall, and we’d go and do dance and […]

Categories: Artists, Lesbians, Musicians • Tags: age, ageing, ageism, australia, gay, homosexual, lesbian, LGBT, LGBTI, mardi gras, mother, sex, sexuality, sydney, viv mcgregor, viv mcgregor photography, woman, women

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Liz

November 13, 2012 by 55Upitty

…I don’t see being gay as a lifestyle, it’s not just that I prefer women, it’s more than that because I am in a world, and in a culture where that is not the norm.  You can only deal with it by having a political framework… I think sex is wonderful.  Always was, hopefully always will be.  And you really shouldn’t neglect it…For me, it hasn’t changed as I’ve got older. I talk about my age like a little kid. […]

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Kaye

August 21, 2012 by 55Upitty

…I remember going to see Peter Pan, and being so impressed by a woman, dressed as a boy, who could fly around with her companion, Wendy.  I realised that a girl could live like that… That’s how I came to be jailed by the Bjelke-Petersen government.  I got three weekends in jail – the men got five!  You can imagine how happy my parents were when I rang them from the Watch House. Dad refused to go bail. I’m fifty-nine […]

Categories: Disability, Feminist, Lesbians • Tags: 1978, 1978 mardi gras, 78rs, aboriginal, age, ageism, aging, androgyny, animal blood, australia, australian politics, bill hayden, Bjelke-Petersen, brisbane, brisbane stock exchange, brownies, cat, cats, childhood, crutches, disability, discrimination, dog, dogs, domestic violence, dyke, elsie women's refuge, equal marriage, family, fashion, feminist, first mardi gras, france, friend, friendship, gay, gay marriage, gender, gender equality, girl guides, gough whitlam, history, homosexual, lesbian, lesbianism, LGBT, LGBTI, love, mardi gras, memoir, mobility, mother, MS, multiple sclerosis, older people, oral history, paris, parisian, people with a disability, peter pan, pets, photography, politics, poodle, portrait photography, portraits, protest, publishing, queensland trades and labor council, queer, refuge, relationships, retirement, retiring, revolution, romance, russian blue, scooter, sex, sexuality, social justice, social work, springbok rugby tour, stripes, sydney, sydney gay and lesbian mardi gras, sydney mardi gras, sydney morning herald, sydney symphony, ti-grace atkinson, travel, union, unionism, vietman war, vietnam, vietnam moratorium, viv mcgregor, viv mcgregor photography, walking stick, wendy, wheelchair, whitlam, woman, women, women's lib, women's liberation, work

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Teresa

April 18, 2012 by 55Upitty

 Being seen as an older woman is another new challenge.  I notice a general disdain for older people, and I’m becoming very attuned to ageism – it’s everywhere.  Older women are invisible, it seems.  Or “cute”.  Either way, we’re not perceived as having any power or status.  So, we’ll have to take it, grab it with both hands and shake it. It was a traumatic time for me – I didn’t know a single other lesbian, I didn’t know that […]

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